A US federal appeals court ruled the Defense of Marriage Act unconsitutional. Big deal! I rule the entire federal government unethical and immoral. The state has no business existing; therefore, it has no business licensing or regulating marriage. And therein lies the first step. Get the state, at all levels, out of the marriage business. Marry your girlfriend, your cousin, your dog, what business is it of mine? It’s not. Nor is it the business of the state.