Very interesting thoughts by Skyler on child misbehavior.
It is my understanding that ALL choices that everyone makes are done to fulfill some unmet need. Even if we are incorrect in our calculation that the need will be met or are unaware consciously of what that need is.
What is “misbehavior” anyway but choices that someone else makes that we don’t approve of? In other words – someone else does something that contributes to our own sense of unease and unmet needs and we call it “misbehavior”.