I have been told I’m judgmental. Probably so.
And I’ve never met anyone who wasn’t (but I’m not judging). It’s not necessarily a bad thing, depending on what you’re judging about someone.
I don’t judge people for what they wear, the color of their skin, their favorite food, the length of their hair (as long as they aren’t sporting a thug rug), their sex lives, their hobbies, or whatever, but I’m convinced it’s OK to judge people for archating. In fact, it’s probably essential.
If you won’t judge those who are molesting others, it seems to me you have no principles at all. Where do you draw the line? Will you stand for anything?