Nobody asked but …
If your only tool is bitching, then every problem looks like a frustration, every frustration looks like a person, every person looks like a victim, every victim looks like a slave. In fact, you seek feedback only to confirm your attitude that others are not on board your slaveship. If you do not see circumstances as a multi-dimensional dynamic, then everything looks like a one-dimensional task where you must dominate from A to B, and to hell with everything from C to the nth letter of the xth alphabet. If you do not see the world, the planetary system, the universe, the multiverse as a place where your control of anything other than the self is totally irrelevant, then you are doomed to frustration. Bitch away.