I constantly get scolded, and I’ll bet you probably do, too.
We shouldn’t be so judgmental.
Just accept that some people have perfectly legitimate reasons for being rapists, kidnappers.,Nazis, communists, cops, murderers, or other archators.
They feel they are doing the right thing.
Just try to understand where they are coming from.
Don’t be so arrogant as to believe your way– to reject the violation of life, liberty, or property of others— is somehow better than theirs.
They have different experiences, and different values, after all.
You should just listen to them to see their perspective. Then you’ll understand that they aren’t wrong; just different.